Mum’s Health Matters: Small Ways to Manage Stress and Make Time for Yourself

When was the last time someone asked you how YOU are feeling and waited for the real answer?

Mums are often the first to notice when someone else needs help. We remember appointments, organise meals, handle school messages and keep the day moving. Work and caring responsibilities can leave little room for walking, resting or checking in with how we feel. It is easy to reach the end of the week feeling tired, tense or disconnected from your own needs.

We deserve more than an occasional reminder to “take care of yourself.” We deserve time, practical support and the freedom to choose what feels good. That might mean a walk before the day begins, an honest conversation about stress, or a quiet moment after everyone else is settled. Those hours after the kids are all asleep in bed…..isn’t it just bliss.

Looking after yourself does not have to start with an elaborate routine. Small habits and shared responsibilities can make space for wellbeing. Cold-water therapy may appeal to some, but it is only one possible part of the picture. The most useful routine is one that supports us rather than adding another demand to our already overloaded list.

Start by making space, not setting a challenge

“Make time for yourself” sounds simple until you have to arrange childcare, finish work, feed everyone, help with homework and reply to the 180 sports chats. A useful first step is to ask how you can actually make room in your day for YOU. Could someone else handle dinner twice a week? Can you block out the 20 minutes after school drop-off just for you? Can a friend join you for a walk?

Support matters more than a perfect timetable. Ten minutes that you can solidly rely on may be more valuable than an ambitious plan that falls apart by Wednesday. You might spend those minutes moving, sitting in the sun, calling a friend or doing absolutely nothing. Rest does not need to be earned! Let me say that again for the people in the back REST DOES NOT NEED TO BE EARNED!

Walking: an accessible way to care for body and mind

Walking is often easier to fit around family life than a scheduled class. It can be a loop around the block, a walk to get coffee, a lap of the park while the children play or a few minutes outside after work. There is no requirement to turn every walk into a strict workout.

Regular movement can support physical and mental health. Australia’s adult movement guidance includes activities such as walking, and healthdirect notes that exercise can help reduce stress and improve sleep. If a longer walk feels out of reach, start with one that fits the day and build from there.

Australian Government movement guidance | healthdirect: exercise and mental health

Walking can serve different needs on different days. A brisk walk may offer a change of pace when you feel restless. A slow walk without headphones may create a little mental space. A walk with another mum can turn into the conversation you have been putting off. The best version is one you actually enjoy and feel happy returning to.

Stress management begins with noticing how you feel

Stress does not always announce itself as a crisis. It might look like waking up already tired, feeling irritable over small things, finding it hard to switch off or saying “I’m fine” when you are stretched thin. Those signals deserve attention.

Try a small check-in before the day takes over: What feels heavy today? What would help? Who could share the load?

Sometimes the answer is practical help. Sometimes it is sleep, food, a walk or five quiet minutes. Slow breathing and talking with someone you trust can also be useful ways to respond to stress. If stress persists or feels overwhelming, a GP or mental health professional can help you work out what support you need
healthdirect: stress
healthdirect: relaxation techniques

An ice bath should never be presented as a cure for stress, anxiety or burnout. A cold plunge may feel like a refreshing pause for some people, but it cannot replace rest, support or healthcare when those are needed.

Where can cold therapy fit into a Mum’s routine?

An ice bath is a tub of cold water used for a short period of cold-water immersion. Some people call it a cold plunge. For a busy mum, its appeal may be surprisingly ordinary: it creates a deliberate moment to stop, pay attention to breathing and focus on yourself.

Picture coming home after a walk, changing into swimwear and taking a quiet moment outdoors. There is no leaderboard and no need to prove how long you can stay in. If cold water feels uncomfortable or unpleasant, a warm shower or another calming ritual may be a better choice.

What about the much-discussed ice bath benefits?

Research into cold-water immersion and general wellbeing suggests possible effects on some measures of stress and sleep, but the studies are few and often small. Evidence for broad claims about mood, immunity or long-term mental health is limited. It is more honest to describe an ice bath as an optional wellbeing practice that some people enjoy than as a guaranteed health treatment.
2025 systematic review in *PLOS One*

Cold water may also be familiar to mums who train or exercise, because immersion is used in some sports recovery routines. That does not mean every mum needs an ice bath after a walk. What matters is how it fits your preferences, health and schedule.

A realistic routine for a busy week

The healthiest routine is often the one that survives an ordinary Tuesday. Here is an example to adapt, not a checklist to complete:

Most days: Step outside for a walk when possible, even if it is brief. Invite a friend or enjoy the quiet on your own.
During a stressful moment: Pause, breathe slowly and decide whether something can be delegated, delayed or discussed.
A few evenings a week: Protect a wind-down period. Put down the phone, ask for help with tomorrow’s preparations and make sleep a priority where circumstances allow
Whenever it feels right: Choose a recovery ritual. Stretching, reading, a bath or a gentle cold-water experience if it is suitable for you.

There is no prize for doing all four. A mum with a newborn, shift work, chronic illness or several children may need a very different plan. The point is to make health feel possible in the life she has now.

Making an ice bath part of life at home

If you are interested in trying cold therapy, choose when and where to use the tub. Keep the area tidy and the setup manageable. A household member can help with filling, draining or cleaning so that her moment of quiet does not create another job for you afterwards.

You might enjoy a cold plunge after a walk; others may prefer a different time of day, or use the tub only occasionally. Treat it as an option alongside movement, rest and support, and pay attention to how the experience feels.

If you later look for an ice bath for sale, choose one that fits your space and that you would feel comfortable using.

Crocpad’s ice bath collection includes portable options; its guide to choosing an ice bath in Australia explains the formats. There is no reason to buy one simply because cold plunging is popular. Make sure it is a ritual you actually want.

Cold-water safety deserves a place in the conversation

Cold water places sudden demands on the body. Start gently, avoid pushing through distress and leave the water if you feel dizzy, unwell or unable to control your breathing. Keep children away from the tub unless directly supervised, and make sure the area around it is safe to walk on.

Royal Life Saving Australia advises that pregnancy and conditions including heart or circulation problems, high blood pressure and increased sensitivity to cold can increase risk with cold-water immersion. If you are pregnant, recently gave birth, take medication that may affect your response to cold, or have a health condition, ask your healthcare professional whether an ice bath is appropriate for you. Royal Life Saving Australia position statement

There is no need to chase extreme temperatures or copy someone else’s routine. The goal is a considered choice that respects your body.

The most valuable gift may be time

If you are reading this because you want to help another mum in your life, start with a question: What would make this week easier for you? Then listen.

Perhaps she would love a walking companion. Perhaps she needs somebody to take over bedtime twice a week. Perhaps she would enjoy trying an ice bath, or perhaps a quiet afternoon would mean more.

For mums reading this: your health deserves attention before you reach the point of exhaustion. A short walk, asking for support and choosing a moment to recover are all valid beginnings. If a cold plunge appeals to you, it can be one part of that routine, on your terms.

If cold therapy is something you would enjoy as part of your routine, you can explore Crocpad’s ice baths and choose a setup that suits your space and life.


This article is sponsored by Crocpad

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